Clarity is Queen.
Jasmine I
01 · The deck
Imagine this.
When you’re born you arrive with a deck of cards.
This deck represents everything you CAN do and everything you WILL do throughout your life.
As we both know, when you first arrive the adults around you must do everything for you. They hold all of the cards for you.
They choose what you eat, what you wear, where you go, what’s allowed and what is not. They tell you how to think in accordance with the cards that were handed down to them, and they imprint their images onto your cards because that is what is familiar, and safe, to them.
02 · Asking
Then you start asking.
As you grow, you begin to do things for yourself. With each new task you master — walking, feeding yourself, speaking — you get a card from your deck back.
This is cause for celebration. You begin to feel more powerful. You start to realise that you have a voice. That you want things. That you can ask for things.
And you do. You ask.
A “yes”
You get the card back.
- I can have this.
- This is safe.
- This is acceptable.
- I am OK. I am allowed.
A “no”
The card is held back.
- You cannot have this.
- This is not safe.
- This is not acceptable.
- You are not OK. Not allowed.
That card is now unattainable for you. You made a mistake. You are not enough. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. And — do not ask again.
03 · Taking stock
Here’s how we get back what belongs to you.
We take stock.
We unpack the cards you do have. We sort through the allowed and the not allowed. The good enough and the not good enough.
We see what is missing and we get those cards back where they belong — with you. We gather the hidden and shy parts of you that were held back, punished, and denied.
Then, once we’re playing with all of you — with your full deck of self — the adventure really begins. Because from that moment on you will know, with all of you, that what Glinda the Good Witch said is true:
You’ve had the power all along.
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